How is it possible to meet someone and get with someone if you're not willing to meet anyone?

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This is a question that one of my readers develop in his comment. I was thinking for a while and I can say that if a woman has any bad experience with the love searching game; she will definitely feel negative in wanting to meet new people.

In her mind she is hurt and doesn't want to waste her time playing a game in which her bad luck is higher. Still in her inner self she desires to find that special person or soul mate that will share these special moments in her life.

How can we answer this question? How is it possible to meet someone and get with someone if your not willing to meet  anyone? I believe that in order for her to actually make her desire a reality; she will have to make a decision on putting a side her negative experiences and keep trying until that love shows up.

 But if you   consider that your not ready to be a player in this love game search, give yourself some time out to think it over. Pamper yourself and take this time to cure all the love injuries and for next time try to be objective. Before involving any feelings just meet the person and really get know him/her so if you're not convinced you will avoid getting hurt.